Day 1 – Learning to Love Map

30-Day Couples Challenge

“Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.”


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The sound relationship house, which represents the culmination of Dr. Gottman’s research and provides the key elements to a successful relationship, begins with Love Maps.

Love maps are defined as knowing the intricacies of your partners inner psychological world.

We first must know ourselves to share with our partners in a way that we can be fully known by them.

So, lets get to know you a bit better. Ponder these questions and share your answers with your partner.

What have been the most defining moments that have helped shape my life – positive and negative?

As we begin this journey together as a couple, how do I need to be encouraged right now?

What is my worst fear and how does it limit my possibilities in life? Does it impact my relationship?

I encourage you to write down your answers and be sure to share your findings with your partner.

Click to watch the video and download this PDF to access your task for the day.

If you need further assistance in learning how your love map impacts your relationship, contact our office at 330-673-5812 to get scheduled with one of our skilled clinicians.